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Kati Kertesz's avatar

This is a great perspective. Yes. It’s very difficult going through trauma, like cancer, and keeping a routine. The self-care is exhaustion and ‘have I eaten today?’

What’s interesting for me is I’ve always had a good exercise routine. Not perfect. But pretty consistent. I was a ballerina from the age of 5 until 18. Then I went to modern dance in college and some Latin hustle in clubs.

I def alternate between 3lbs, 5lbs and have graduated to 8lbs. Yay me!

I think we need to exchange some exercise - writing routine. I’m finding it really difficult to stick to a consistent writing schedule. And these swirling thoughts and ideas can in my capo (head) need to be written down.

Thank for writing this piece !

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Jess Rinker's avatar

I find people who had some kind of physical discipline as a child or young adult even, have a better time sticking to it. I never did. My activity was feeding horses, climbing trees, playing in creeks. So for most of my life I’ve been active, just not remotely disciplined. Walking, biking, hiking…all things I love, but definitely do not do in winter. And I would love to exchange some routines! Maybe we develop some kind of joint writer/exercise prompt schedule! I bet many people would enjoy that.

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Kati Kertesz's avatar

Great idea!

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Angel R. Ackerman's avatar

Great work! You go ahead and destroy those 3 pound weights!

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Jess Rinker's avatar

😅

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Linda Williams Jackson's avatar

“Similar to looking at a blank screen and thinking, just write something, you lazy writer! Even if what you write is: I suck at writing, I have no idea what this story is about, why will anyone on planet earth care. You have to start. Because maybe someone on Mars will care.”

Love it!

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Jess Rinker's avatar

Hahah..thank you! We never know who's out there... ;-)

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Linda Williams Jackson's avatar

Right!

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Donna Galanti's avatar

So glad you are caring yourself. It's hard when your life gets derailed. I know. And yoga, yes! I love Yoga with Adriene, free on YouTube. Glad you and Joe can do this together. Flex. Breathe. Bend. Then repeat. XXOO

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