Very insightful, Jess. When you started, I wondered where you’d go.
I never had the motherly urge. I enjoyed holding and playing w my nieces and nephews. I even changed diapers. But the vomit. Ugh. No way. Line drawn. Lol.
And I was absolutely petrified of the birth process. “The ship’s too big and the bottle’s too small.”
Plus, I watched my mom have too many and my sisters struggle w single parenthood.
But a partner? That’s inevitable for me now. And I’m scared sh**tless. Oy vey.
I can’t do vomit either but when I have had to hold Joe up when he’s been sick, I realized I can. Would I choose it—hell no. But it comes with love, when you want it to. It is terrifying, and whether it’s kids or a partner or anyone you have to care for that fear never really goes away. You just roll up your sleeves and get done what needs to get done. And then you reflect, which always makes things seem easier than it is. ❤️
Very insightful, Jess. When you started, I wondered where you’d go.
I never had the motherly urge. I enjoyed holding and playing w my nieces and nephews. I even changed diapers. But the vomit. Ugh. No way. Line drawn. Lol.
And I was absolutely petrified of the birth process. “The ship’s too big and the bottle’s too small.”
Plus, I watched my mom have too many and my sisters struggle w single parenthood.
But a partner? That’s inevitable for me now. And I’m scared sh**tless. Oy vey.
I can’t do vomit either but when I have had to hold Joe up when he’s been sick, I realized I can. Would I choose it—hell no. But it comes with love, when you want it to. It is terrifying, and whether it’s kids or a partner or anyone you have to care for that fear never really goes away. You just roll up your sleeves and get done what needs to get done. And then you reflect, which always makes things seem easier than it is. ❤️
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Thank you for this, dear Jess. Sending you and Joe so much love.
Thank you, Gayle. <3
This is beautiful and poignant. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for reading. :)